ARRANGED OR LOVE MARRIAGE

“Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate.” It is said that love marriages offer more independence and freedom as compared to arranged marriages where the girl/boy is chosen by the parents. Though arranged marriage offers more protection and security to the woman, but a question arises against arranged marriage that how can you marry somebody to whom you have never met or talked and also it does not mean that arranged marriages are the ideal sort of marriage. In judging the affairs of marriage and love, 'Venus' plays a significant role in a horoscope. In astrology the '7th House' denotes relationships/marriage. In the natural zodiac Venus is the lord of 'Libra', which is the seventh sign in the hierarchy. As a general rule, the lord of the seventh house should not occupy the 6th and the 8th houses in a horoscope to assure marital happiness. Again if the '7th house' is sandwiched between two malefic planets, then the marriage proves burden-some and miserable. Thus astrology supports this opinion that despite of love, commitment and honesty some marriages do not last longer just because of the stars and your planetary dasha, but astrology can give you many remedies so that if are rushing to a marriage whether it is love or arranged please take the help of Vedic astrology. It can guide you to select your correct better half.

It is not always that arranged marriages are successful or love marriages are unsuccessful. We see that most of the arranged marriages are successful for some reasons. In an arrange marriage, the parents do support the relationship and try their best to keep the relationship alive as it is their responsibility too. If you believe in astrology and horoscope, then I would like to share something. I have seen that some relationships grow really good, life changes after getting married and some vice versa. In an arranged marriage all of a sudden you start your life with a person you don’t know. You may not like the person, but you have got married to him/her just because your parents and elders decided your marriage. In most of the cases the girls are forced to sacrifice their likes and adjust to the reality. Some may just live their life. They believe that it is their fate, but some break up. Some start their love life after the wedding and enjoy and stay happy.

Love marriage is a legal right for two individuals who love and care for each other to live together and go ahead with their lives. In love marriage, you know each other well, you are not going to be with any unknown or you may not have many problems if you know about the person well before you decide to spend your life together. A love marriage can become un-successful, if you had a very short time to know each other.

In my opinion, nobody can be sure that he or she will fall in love with a person and even if he or she falls in love with somebody, that person will fall in love in return. If you don’t fall in love or not get a right person, then you can think of arranged marriages. Even in arranged marriages you can know the person well before you decide to get married. You should make sure that your proposed partner likes you as well and is not agreeing for the wedding because of any pressure from her/his parents or any other reason.

“Love is constant and never dies, for you the soul carries it within from one body to another basking in its bliss”

Vedic astrology has comprehensively established the concept of 'karma' and re-birth'. 'Love' is the most significant carry-forward emotion and the soul's prime motive is to complete the circle and re-unite with the 'mate'. 'Heaven on Earth' is more to do with pleasures of the heart; than that of the body. The 'love destiny' is clearly etched in a horoscope like all other aspects of life. Wealthy are those who find sincere 'love' and this love is actually a great asset in the journey towards 'self-enlightenment'. However a soul must first learn to distinguish between 'lust' & 'love' and honour the latter to be rewarded with its 'joy'. In many cases, the soul in its earthly stint/s gets addicted to the stimulating 'rush' associated with falling in love and so desires to experience time again, leading to multiple relationships and consequent heart aches. The disposition of planets in a horoscope portrays the 'love destiny' of a person in terms of marriages, intense relationships and companionships, the planetary periods and transits in a horoscope tell us about the timing of a 'love event’.

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Jyotishacharya Vinay Sheel Saxena “Bhagya Samhita wale” is a well known indian Vedic Astrologer Horoscope reader and Vastu expert and provides best vedic astrology solutions, vastu remedies, astrology forecast, Horoscope matching and other astrological solutions.