DIVORCED AND CHILDREN

Social scientists and psychiatrists explain this as a sign that the till-death-do-us-apart class of marriage is under strain. Young couples marry impulsively and separate equally spontaneously. Divorce is now seen more as a corrective mechanism and a way to move forward in life," says psychiatrist Harish Shetty. Shetty states financial independence, multiplicity of relationships and ample career opportunities as some of the reasons for the increase.

It is said, “Marriages are decided in heaven through arranged on earth.” According to Indian tradition, two people unite in to one; only physically they remain two. The strings of love are like the strings of a violin. Once you learn the rules you must play with your heart. Then it requires no map or chart. You only need a loving and caring heart. We have to realise that love is a commitment. We can never nurture enduring relationship in our family or elsewhere without commitment. It’s not like that we don’t follow the rules of marriage, but sometimes it does not go well. Why does it happen with only few people?

Astrology says that when you are born, some planets are not placed in their correct position where they should be. Sometimes our stars are not in our favour when we get married. Our stars are not matched with the person whom we get married and the result is we have to pay for it. Not only one person, our children are also the victims of our unwanted marriage. Sometimes parents withdraw the decision to get divorced for the sake of their children. Irrespective of age, race, sex or religion divorce only offers a long term penalty to parents as well as for the children. The immediate effect of divorce such as hurt, anger and confusion are evident in both children and parents.

It is estimated that nearly one half of the children born today spend time with a single parent household watching their mummy or papa going to their offices. Children born to single-parent families are made to endure the conflict and emotional upset that divorce brings about. At this time, when children require stability and emotional support, the pressures of growing up are often compounded by the stress of divorce and family breakdown.

The decision for a couple to divorce is an emotionally difficult and exhausting time. The decision is most difficult when there are children involved. Children need two things during this crisis period emotional and mental support. Unfortunately they don’t get any of them at this crucial time. According to a study children of single parent are more delinquent, obstinate and stubborn. Not only does this situation create mental and emotional disbalance but it also brings financial crisis along with it. Sometimes problems are so difficult to handle that it becomes extremely difficult to control them. The time has come to give childhood back to the children and responsibilities back to the parents. Come to me my dear friends and give me all your trouble. I assure you I will not let you down.

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Jyotishacharya Vinay Sheel Saxena “Bhagya Samhita wale” is a well known indian Vedic Astrologer Horoscope reader and Vastu expert and provides best vedic astrology solutions, vastu remedies, astrology forecast, Horoscope matching and other astrological solutions.